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Dear Mark, Brian and families,
My deepest condolences to you on the loss of your father. I will forever be thankful for having had him in my life all those years. He was a wonderful Grandfather to me and I will really miss him. He was very kind, funny and generous. I remember him singing "Mares eat oats and does eat oats and little lambs eat ivy. Skidelly-divey-doo wouldn't you!" Looking forward to seeing him again one day in Heaven. Love Charm
Charm Clare and family - Friday May 25, 2018 via Condolence Message
Aubrey was my neighbor. In apartment living parlance: "We shared a wall". I don't think Aubrey quite understood why I was taking a year of "visits" to set up my retirement lair. His curiosity would rise to the forefront when our paths would cross upon my arrival from work in Boston, London or even Istanbul for the weekend. When I told him I wanted the battlefield ready for my July retirement date, then he got the picture. I'm a story-teller; surely Colonel Messing with so colorful a history as a son of America would have great stories to share with me...once I pulled them out of him in true Maine fashion....one word at a time. I met his two sons; fine men and proud of their father's accomplishments in a long life. The gods are to be blamed for Aubrey leaving our corner of iconic Knox Mill too soon. Or, maybe I'm to be blamed for coming too late to the party. I'll miss Aubrey. I liked him. I'll miss his stories. Aubrey was a great part-time neighbor!
Joseph Cote - Tuesday May 01, 2018 via Condolence Message
Dear Mark and Brian, I am saddened to have learned of your dad's passing.

I knew him only a little, yet I was always astonished at his educational and career accomplishments. He ended up doing pretty well for a high school dropout.

I didn't know he had left Yorktown and I hope being closer to family was happiness for all.

All my best wishes to all of you.

Lawrence Elliott
Charlottesville, Virginia
Lawrence Elliott - Thursday April 26, 2018 via Condolence Message
My Dear AUBREY,
Even though you've gone on to our Heavenly Home, YOU'LL ALWAYS REMAIN IN MY HEART!...as you will ALSO REMAIN in the LOVING HEARTS of OUR TWO BOYS & their FAMILIES as well! It seems that time just flies, the older we get, and I know that it won't be long before we'll all be together again! WHAT A GRAND REUNION THAT WILL BE!
LOVE YOU,.....UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN!.....MTLWBTAM, WWAAOFTO! Sincerely, SHIRLEY (former wife of 20 years)
SHIRLEY MESSING Wednesday, April 25, 2018 - Thursday April 26, 2018 via Condolence Message
I pray for comfort at this time for the entire Messing family, I am saddened by this loss of such an admirable man.
Tim Pezanowski - Wednesday April 25, 2018 via Condolence Message
Dear Brian & the Messing family,
While I only knew Aubrey for a few short months this winter, he struck me ad one of the brightest, caring & independent people I have met.my condolences to your family; Aubrey will be missed by so many at Bella Pointe and in Camden.
Micah Wells
Food Service Director
Micah Wells - Wednesday April 25, 2018 via Condolence Message
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